No-one is Perfect.

Yes, no-one is perfect, that is why we are ALL unique.

The funny thing is being human makes us always look for similarities with people so we feel more connected, feels counter intuitive doesn't it?

I was thinking about the idea of perfection, being human and our purpose in our life.

Three big subjects.

I believe our strive for perfection is about wanting to get it 'right' and let's face it, a lot of us want to get it right, because then we do, we feel all sorts of good things about ourselves. Feeling good about ourselves is awesome, but unfortunately we can't rely on being 'right' or 'perfect' to feel good. So what to do?

As humans we want to be accepted, yet we all want to stand out and be seen? And to be seen is to be different and unique. Then there is the conundrum, be like everyone else and 'accepted' but be seen and be 'unique'.

The Answer? I personally believe the ability to accept what is different about yourself and others will too gives us the freedom to do both.

Just knowing that everyone is perfect, because everyone is unique, is such a comforting thought. No striving to get it right - that's why self love and self acceptance is so important.

I also wrote a post about how to help us accept ourselves and finding our uniqueness to see our life purpose called 'Everyone has one, what's yours?' I really hope you have time to read it as this tool helped me a lot. In fact that it's this weeks homework if you are up for it!

The first and last photographs are from a Music Video Clip I wrote and directed which I'll show you next week. Very excited! Plus an inspiring goal a client of mine has to bring personal development online. So stay tuned!

Do have an awesome week - love and sparkle to you all! Scarlett xo

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